Marriage is a big deal in our society. Since childhood, we have been told that girls should get married between 18-20 or there will be problems, or that boys should not delay until they are 25. It seems like marriage is like a serial, where everyone's character is already written. But the reality is different. Marriage is not a timetable, marriage is a person's own choice, their own mentality and their own decision.
Many people say that age is the most important thing for marriage. But I think age is just a number, the real thing is mental preparation. Suppose, a person is mentally mature at the age of 22, he knows how to take responsibility for himself, build a life with a partner. On the other hand, someone may not have understood what he really wants even after crossing 30. Then is the first person wrong and the second person right? Not at all. The main thing here is commitment. Are you really ready to make another person a part of your life? Do you want to share your happiness, sorrow, success, and failure? If the answer is yes, then age is not a big deal.
Many people think that age difference means a problem. If the girl is younger or the boy is older, the relationship will be ruined. But in reality, the relationship is built on understanding and respect. Just think, even if two people are the same age, if their mentality does not match, the relationship will not last. Again, even if there is a difference of 8-10 years in age, if they love, understand, and respect each other, their relationship can be much stronger.
Marriage is not just a union of two people, marriage means responsibility, love, and a promise to understand each other. Age is not a magic wand here, that everything will be fine only after a certain time. So the decision of when to get married, with whom to get married, or whether to get married at all should always be your own. Society may say something, but at the end of the day, life is yours. And you also have the right to seek happiness.