My response to the @Indiaunited Contest - Theme: How do you want to be remembered?
After we die there are ways that people remember us with and it all depends on what impressions we have left on them. Not everyone has the same experience of us while we are alive, so when we die not everyone is going to think the same of us. Some may remember us fondly and some may not.
Personally when I die, I would like that people remember me fondly with the feeling of love. I have no intention that people remember me for any achievements I have made, because that's very common. All I would expect is that when they think of me all they should feel is love and no hard feelings should come up. Because that's where they will remember me for a long time. What is the use if I have made big achievements but not been nice to people and they have bitter memories of my character.
When you remember someone with love, you feel joy within and it uplifts your mood, that's what I would want to do after I am gone, but for that I need to do such things while I am alive that people develop those loving feelings for me. While I believe in this I am not sure how much of it will be true when I am gone. There are times when I have to be nasty with some people because of their actions, so I am sure those people are never going to remember me fondly. But then I cannot please everyone while I am alive, so I have to accept the hard reality of life and live practically.
At large also if people think of me fondly, somewhere up there I will feel that I lived a very fulfilling life, and some exceptions will always be there. I would want to be remembered as a loving mother, wife, sister, daughter, friend, acquaintance and all the relationships that I am in.
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