https://youtu.be/jDq9V5vcv90?si=oLvhF-7J9AncIcC7 Why is it so difficult,why Is it so hard to forgive? The reason why you do not forgive someone who offended you in the scripture means lack of love, the absence of love. That the righful answer to that because if you have that love taught by our lord jesus christ through his apostles to us, you can forget everything,even the most bitter of your experience from someone who offended you or sinned against you with the love instructed to Christians by the lord jesus christ,it is so easy to forgive.
Remember there are things which are considered to be so easy to forget. Why of all the things. We cannot forget something ugly and evil done to us. Why all the thing that you may remember in this life,why do you always remember those ugly those things are not pleasing in the eye of God and in the eye of man. Why does it always come back to our mind? There is a force behind it, there is force that make us remember, there is a force that brings that memory back to your mind and that is a force or a spirit that's not of God. Let us see the attitude of God towards sin and towards sinner in the book of Hebrews. Hebrews chapter 8 verse 12 says, For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more. It means a very inspiring and hopeful pronouncement of the lord in the bible. Remember the one talking is the lord, most powerful of all. The lord who remembers everything that happens, the lord who can retain in his memory, the reality of the past,present and the future. He's a God with perfect memory.
He said I will be merciful to their unrighteousness and their sins and iniquities will I remember no more imagine for someone with a perfect memory to forget all our sins and our iniquities that is something great. We can forget things and even more important things in life. Why is it hard to forget ugly and evil things? It is hard because there is a force that brings back the memories of the things that happened.