It's difficult to deal with our parents when we're not on the same wavelength. I imagine she still needs time to process the loss of your father, while you need some space for yourself. It's okay to spend time together, but I think you're right to be aware of the things that affect you negatively and protect yourself from them. It's not a question of distancing yourself completely, but of finding a balance where she can feel that you are there without it affecting you. I didn't know you could get those flashes with a torch either, I'll make a note of the trick because the photos turned out great. I hope you continue to show us your new acquisitions, the flowers are a joy to behold and uplifting.
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