Hello everyone and welcome to this week hive Ghana weekly prompt,my name is @quin.lizzy and today I will be writing about the the topic "love Vs family".
This is indeed a hard choice to make,either choosing the one person you feel completely free and feel you can't live without or the people you grew up with and know for your whole life.
Nevertheless,I will indeed choose family against all odd.Mind you we haven't gotten married yet,we are just so much in love and sometimes love doesn't mean the people end up with each other,I can't possibly be happy in a relationship that my family are not in support of,so why not just let go.
I will first of all,try to convince my family,when am in love and feel I have found the only one is natural for me not to heed to anyone opinion and go beyond all odds for my happiness but my family is also my happiness and I will try my possible best to convince them,try my best to give them reasons but if it doesn't go as planned I will be left with no reasons but to heed to them,even though letting go means hurting but is better to be hurt by letting go than being hurt after betrayal. This are my reasons for choosing family first;
Firstly;the know better,there is indeed reasons why the wouldn't support me to be with someone I love.Trying to understand them will go a long way.Even though this will come with a lot of pains but the know love even before I was born,there are so many instances presently going on that people who feel the have found there one and believe that the are inseparable are no longer together because of one reason or the other, mostly because the refuse to hid to advice but follow there heart.
Secondly:love can fade away but family can't be replaced;I know this is very debatable about love fading away and if it does it's no longer love,but the fact that people change and don't feel the same as time goes on,is enough reason to clinge to my family and choose them.
Thirdly: family is love,the fact that the are not in support of us being together means the love me and wouldn't want to see me get hurt,cause is only those who love you that won't allow you go into fire in the name of love, family is love,the first love we experience,so I choose love,I choose family.
Thanks for stopping by at my blog@quin.lizzy.