In many aspects of life, having a good self-esteem is important. This factor makes it easier for us to get involved in important projects that can lead us to improve our quality of life and make things easier for us when we relate and contribute to the daily crises do not affect us too much.
However, as almost any psychological factor related to personality, having excess self-esteem can bring us problems. When these levels of self-esteem escalate in such a way it tends to become narcissism and that is when everything changes.
Here we show you three types of narcissism and how you can cope with them:
1. Dependent
In this case we are not talking about the stereotype of a person who is delighted to have known herself, very happy with who she is and what she can achieve. Unlike; This type of narcissism is characterized by the desperation with which validation is sought by others. Thus, these people combine a certain feeling of very subtle superiority, on the one hand, with the realization that this superiority can not be put into practice, and therefore it is necessary to receive special treatment to compensate for that situation. Their desire to obtain approval from others gives them an obsessive character.
2. Powerful
It is a type of narcissism centered on demonstrations of power, that is, imposing its will on the rest. Who presents it, enjoys submitting to those around him.
3. Fantasioso
These types of narcissists isolate themselves in an imaginary world in which their feelings of greatness correspond to how they see themselves. The tendency to fantasize is, then, a way to resolve the incongruity of feeling special while believing that they are mediocre in their concrete way of behaving on a day-to-day basis.