Generational gaps have always been a family problem because they are never based on one's own thoughts. The new generation has a very different idea and a very different perspective, and they solve problems in new ways. They choose their understanding and their life based on their old traditional way, their wisdom, and their experience. This difference will always remain because there is no generation where nothing is missing. The older generation never had phones. Technology was not so advanced. Neither was there an electricity, so they don't know what all this is.
The new generation found all this very easy and comfortable, and the new generation did not give much priority to their culture. The older generation respected their culture and practices very much. The new generation today lives mostly on their phones or laptops. Even today, the older generation reads newspapers from there.If you watch the news, this generation gap will never be eliminated, no matter how much technology advances. One thing is that this disconnect between new and old will never disappear and will always remain.
Speaking of myself, I know how to operate phones and laptops quite easily. I've been involved with phones and laptops since childhood, and I know how to operate them. However, if you talk to my father on the same thing he doesn't know that much about how to operate a phone. Sometimes, he accidentally presses a button that enlarges the font size or causes the screen to go black and white. These are mistakes he makes because his generation didn't have these things, so there's this generation gap. This has always been a problem, and sometimes, I present my perspective to my father, but he doesn't understand it. I don't understand his perspective. No one is wrong, but what I think is new. When I think through my past experiences, these problems are always ongoing, and because of this, there's always some fighting at home.
The most important problem is that whenever we make a decision, there's a huge generation gap. For example, if I make a decision, I always think from a New West perspective. For example, if someone asks me what kind of phone I should buy today, a keypad or a touchscreenphone, I'll tell you that a touchscreenphone would be easier. My father would say "keypad," because he used keypad phones more often in his generation. Keypad phones are more understandable to him. This generation gap and generational problem will always exist. My child will have a phone that's much more advanced than ours, which I won't understand. This generation gap will always persist, and that's not a bad thing, because everyone should have the experience of every generation, because experience exists. One thing that travels from generation to generation is that it's a thing that keeps generations moving.
But the generation gap isn't always a negative thing. It can also be positive from a long time ago. Suppose your father made a mistake in his life that he regrets to this day. If you were going to make a decision, you could ask him what his mistakes were that you regret so much today. You would be able to avoid all those things because your father experienced them all. He's gotten over them, so you'll know what steps to take in all these things. Making such a decision, the experience you'll gain from your father, both in perspective and in visa, is a huge thing because it will put you in the race to become a successful person in the future because you know that your father made this mistake, which you shouldn't make. Your father made a wrong decision here, which you shouldn't make. These are all small things that you can gain positively from the generation gap.
The most important thing where everyone is first is in generation talks where your father has a different perspective. And all this happens mostly in marriage, career, and education because in their time the open style was different. In your time it is different. In today's time love marriage is very common. In earlier times arranged marriage was very much in trend, and you people did not get so much choice. People were told to do whatever they wanted, but in today's time it has become very rare that people will marry as per their parents' wishes and not all these things. Those people fight a lot, and it is more about what is registered with them. Older people are very much dependent on their traditions and run everything according to their traditions.
In the end I would like to say that National Gas is not a big issue. Yes, sometimes it happens that your father's and mother's perspectives are different, but it is not like that because both the opinion of the father and yours are also considered. Your mother's opinion is also considered. At some places it is like this—there is a lot of positivity as well. At some places if we talk about a little negative or positive, then whatever mistake we make, we have a father who would correct the mistake or tell us that yes, I have made a mistake. Mother keeps us under a lot of pressure. But at some places it happens that we end up fighting.
For example, I recently saw someone argue about their marriage because they wanted a love marriage, while their parents wanted an arranged marriage because they belonged to a different caste. These problems are much more prevalent today because parents want to follow their traditions, while the new generation doesn't follow traditions because they want to live their own way. This is a generation gap. This happens to everyone. I've seen a lot of fights in many places, and in many families, parents start following the same generation. If a generation becomes modern and technologically advanced, then they modernize themselves. They go out with their children, drink beer, etc. These are all new things that every parent has their own unique perspective on, and it's no one's fault. There is a gap in every generation at some point, and each generation has different choices and different things.
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