There are many good times in life when you feel that you should sit alone in peace, away from the noise of the world and so many people, and solve all the problems, because many times you are surrounded by so many people that sometimes you feel that you are alone for some time, which gives you comfort and peace, because there is great fun in being alone. You have to keep everyone away from whatever condition you are in. You have to keep negativity away. Avoid everyone, and by being alone you get an answer to every question, which would be very difficult if you stayed with someone else. Hence, sometimes being alone is also a very good thing.
When you are surrounded by a lot of people, whether it is your friends and family or strangers, then you listen to 100 people. You try to take things in 100 ways. But when you are alone, you try to be yourself. Hence, it is very important that you should stay alone for a long time. If you have a lot of problems or you feel that something important is happening or there is no option left, then you should stay alone because if you are surrounded by someone, then you try to become like him, whether he is a positive person or a negative person; hence, never try to become like anyone. If you have a problem, then you should take a break from the world of noise in this and turn your self towards yourself.
There are many times when you start questioning yourself because you have seen a particular person on social media living such a lifestyle that he looks fake because there are many times when you are on Instagram. 90% of the time whatever you post on social media or anywhere else is fake, or it is on time, so because of that sometimes you feel that I have nothing in life. I have not been able to achieve much in life, or I have never done anything that can make me like him. Therefore, it is very important that if you ever get such a feeling, then never expect anything from the society. You should be alone in your silent place where you feel good. Stay near nature or in such a place that you enjoy. Talk to yourself.
The second reason for loneliness is that you learn the value that a relationship teaches you. Many times, you are with a person who does not care for you or does not give you as much attention and value as he butters you up. What should you do then? You should stay away from him and see if he tries to find you or calls you again and again asking where I am. Why did you suddenly go away? Then you should understand that he values you. He trusts you and respects you, but if he This is what loneliness teaches you—how much does the person you are with value and respect you?
If I give my personal example, there was a time when I was going through a lot of problems. I got very poor marks in my marksheet. I was not able to do any work properly. I lost my internship, so such times are full of problems in everyone's life, but what did I do at that time. I went on a solo trip in which I went to such a village. I went to my own village. I went there and sat near nature. I understood what I should do. How should I give it back. How many more hours should I study so that I can get a good internship back. So after doing all this, I understood what I have to do and how should I do it?
There are many great thinkers, writers, and artists. When actors and actresses have to play a particular role or go on a date for a particular scene, what do they do? They lock themselves in a room and react to it again and again. You call it that and become the next in that thing. If you are perfect in something, then you can do it so much better than anyone else can. You have to learn this loneliness—that loneliness makes you perfect. When you are in front of a lot of people, they do not understand you that much. But when you are alone, then you come to know how much ability you have and how far you can go ahead.
Many times loneliness gives you a break. Those unhealthy cycles are such that many people fall into toxic relationships. They are in a very wrong relationship where they are made to work for a very long time or follow a very wrong routine. And their routine is very bad, and they never stay in that kind of roti, so they live in solitude. They left everything. Toxic relationships are bad, so when they left all this, they got a lot of time to understand themselves. Understand their feelings. When you live alone, you understand your feelings. You understand what you can do. What are the possibilities? So all this is very important in life.
But always being lonely is also a very wrong thing because you need such a friend or a person who always understands you and gives you solutions to your problems and always learns the things that you do not understand. If you make any mistake, then he understands you, so it is a very important thing that you should have a mental or best friend. What will be the use of having a friend in life with whom you can share anything? Whatever problem you have in your mind, if you share it with someone, then your problems will be reduced, and you will get many variants of solutions, like you are thinking something and the other person is thinking something else.
Lastly, I would like to say that loneliness is not a problem. It is a great gift. Whenever you have any problem that is giving you problems in life or your relationship is getting spoiled, then you should go to a place where you are alone. Understand who is good, who is wrong, and who is nice. Who is big? All these are important things. You should understand this when you are in a toxic relationship or in a loop where you have no one to talk to.So it is important for you to take a break, and it is important to take a break for yourself; you can go on a solo trip. There is a lot to do in life, so understand your own value; understand your own personal value. You have made yourself perfect. Understand that you talk a lot, but nothing will happen to you with so much work.
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