Una esposa conocida (2018)

*Hola amigos de películas y programas de TV, llegar con la persona que amas al matrimonio se convierte en un sueño hecho realidad y un desafío mental que a veces se vuelve confuso. Ninguna relación en el matrimonio es perfecta, todo comienza como un fuego ardiendo y luego ese fuego se apaga con el paso de las temporadas frías, un amor que sobrevive con el paso del tiempo. Este es un drama que narra ese caos en el matrimonio, el lado confuso de un esposo apañado por su egoísmo, el descuido y rabia de una esposa que en el fondo se siente sola, cargada por la frustración, todo este drama narrado en una historia titulada: Una esposa conocida. Al principio debo confesar que no me sentí atraída por el título de esta historia, siempre busco que los protagonistas se vean hermosos en las portadas, aunque en este caso ambos se veían bien, fue su título que me hizo tardar un poco en verla, pero al final valió la pena prestar atención a los detalles de esta historia matrimonial*.

*Como les comente al principio contraer matrimonio con la persona que amas es un momento especial, ¿que sucede si con el paso de tiempo sientes que cometiste un error y miras a esa persona que creías amar no ser la indicada para ti?, esta fue la batalla mental que llevo al protagonista Cha Ju-hyeok sentirse decepcionado de su decisión de casarse. Resulta que este hombre talentoso desea volver al pasado, cambiar su vida y escoger una vida al lado de la mujer que él cree debió ser su esposa. Este pensamiento absurdo es la base para que su deseo se vuelva realidad, no sin antes arrastrar consigo a su actual esposa. Para Cha Ju-hyeok un empleado del Banco, padre de dos niños, quien desea ser ascendido a un mejor puesto para traer dinero a casa, comienza de un momento a otro a ver su vida matrimonial como un obstáculo, sintiendo que su esposa es el problema de sentirse estancado en su actual vida. Su vida matrimonial lo limita, según su propio pensamiento, a alcanzar lo que él creía debió ser su vida, esa que perdió gracias a su mala decisión de casarse. Seo U-jin es la esposa de Cha Ju-hyeok, una esposa, que dejó de un lado sus sueños para convertirse en madre y esposa del hombre que ama, sin dudar por un instante de su decisión. Sin embargo, se perdió a sí misma en el camino, se llenó de ira por callarse todo, en su molestia llora y causa malos tratos a su esposo Cha Ju-hyeok quien no entiende su molestia y la mira como la culpable de su trágica vida. Sintiéndose atrapado en la rutina y los malos tratos de su cansada esposa,Ju-hyeok desea en el fondo cambiar su vida y despojarse de su esposa Seo U-jin, sin considerar que este deseo abriría una brecha entre el pasado y el presente, cruzándose en su camino con un hombre extraño que le dio el pase hacia ese cambio que él quería hacer en su vida*.

*El matrimonio cambió la vida de los esposos, para bien y para mal. En el caso Cha Ju-hyeok la clave estaba en cambiar su pasado, tener en sus manos el pase para saltar el tiempo. Viajar era el milagro que soñaba; su valentía le cambió la vida. Llego al pasado evito a toda costa cruzarse con su esposa y despertó en ese futuro que él creía era el mejor para sus vidas, al lado de aquella mujer que fue su primer amor, con la casa y bienes soñados, toda una vida con ventajas; sin embargo, en su deseo egoísta se olvidó de muchas cosas, principalmente sus dos pequeños hijos. Enfrentar su ahora presente fue alegría y al mismo tiempo tristeza. Había olvidado a sus hijos que ya no estaban en su presente soñado, ese puñal le hizo reaccionar un poco. Con lo que no contaba Cha Ju-hyeok es que no solo su vida cambió, la esposa que dejó en el pasado ahora también se había superado a sí misma y seguía siendo aquella bella mujer que conoció en su juventud. Seo U-jin ahora en su nueva vida era una mujer brillante, profesional e interesada por las finanzas como su esposo, aunque lo había olvidado y con él su Vida Matrimonial, verlo nuevamente fue para ella revivir ese amor dormido que no borro los cambios del tiempo que hizo Cha Ju-hyeok, el amor por su esposo seguía latiendo como el primer día. Excluir a su esposa Seo U-jin de su vida fue un reto superado. Lo único que Cha Ju-hyeok no pudo cambiar fue que su esposa llegara hasta su lugar de trabajo por ser brillante y destacada en su empleo en finanzas, después de todo no podía evitarla, aunque estaba viviendo su vida soñada*.

*Evitar a su ex será para Cha Ju-hyeok una prueba mental, porque se trata de enfrentar sus sentimientos, culpas y egoísmo, porque al final un matrimonio funciona. Si ambos trabajan en equipo, comunicación y nutren el amor, el resto se convierte en excusas. Enfrentarse a sí mismo, rectificar todos los cambios y recuperar la vida que deseo abandonar presenta varios capítulos que son interesantes, ideal para los recién casados y para aquellos que se sienten atrapados en la rutina de la vida en pareja. El matiz de esta historia me encanto, es una mezcla entre fantasía y los sentimientos en las parejas que siempre se tratan de ocultar del otro sobre todo cuando sientes que ya la relación no funciona, siempre se busca un culpable, una razón para rendirse sin dejar la opción de rectificar y luchar por mejorar*.

*Hello, movie and TV show lovers! Getting married to the person you love is a dream come true and a mental challenge that can sometimes be confusing. No marriage is perfect. Everything starts out like a burning fire, and then that fire dies down as the cold seasons pass, a love that survives the test of time. This is a drama that narrates that chaos in marriage, the confusing side of a husband caught up in his selfishness, the neglect and anger of a wife who deep down feels lonely, burdened by frustration, all this drama narrated in a story titled: A Familiar Wife. At first, I must confess that I was not attracted to the title of this story. I always look for the protagonists to look beautiful on the covers, and although in this case they both looked good, it was the title that made me take a while to watch it. But in the end, it was worth paying attention to the details of this marital story*.

*As I mentioned at the beginning, marrying the person you love is a special moment. But what happens if, over time, you feel that you made a mistake and realize that the person you thought you loved is not right for you? This was the mental battle that led the protagonist, Cha Ju-hyeok, to feel disappointed with his decision to get married. It turns out that this talented man wants to go back in time, change his life, and choose a life with the woman he believes should have been his wife. This absurd thought is the basis for his wish to come true, but not before dragging his current wife along with him. For Cha Ju-hyeok, a bank employee and father of two who wants to be promoted to a better position so he can bring home more money, his married life suddenly begins to feel like an obstacle, and he feels that his wife is the reason he feels stuck in his current life. His married life limits him, in his own mind, from achieving what he believed his life should have been, the life he lost thanks to his bad decision to get married. Seo U-jin is Cha Ju-hyeok's wife, a wife who put aside her dreams to become a mother and wife to the man she loves, without hesitating for a moment in her decision. However, she lost herself along the way, filled with anger at keeping everything to herself. In her frustration, she cries and mistreats her husband Cha Ju-hyeok, who does not understand her frustration and sees her as the culprit of his tragic life. Feeling trapped in the routine and mistreatment of his weary wife, Ju-hyeok secretly wishes to change his life and rid himself of his wife Seo U-jin, without considering that this desire would open a rift between the past and the present, crossing paths with a strange man who gave him the pass to make the change he wanted in his life*.

*Marriage changed the couple's lives, for better or worse. In Cha Ju-hyeok's case, the key was to change his past, to have in his hands the ticket to jump through time. Traveling was the miracle he dreamed of; his courage changed his life. He arrived in the past, avoided meeting his wife at all costs, and woke up in the future he believed was best for their lives, alongside the woman who was his first love, with the house and possessions he had dreamed of, a whole life of advantages. However, in his selfish desire, he forgot many things, mainly his two young children. Facing his present was both joyful and sad. He had forgotten his children, who were no longer in his dream present, and that stab in the heart made him react a little. What Cha Ju-hyeok didn't count on was that not only had his life changed, but the wife he left behind in the past had also surpassed herself and was still the beautiful woman he had known in his youth. Seo U-jin, now in her new life, was a brilliant, professional woman interested in finance like her husband, although she had forgotten him and her married life with him. Seeing him again was like reviving that dormant love that had not been erased by the changes brought about by time. Cha Ju-hyeok's love for his wife continued to beat as strongly as it had on the first day. Excluding his wife Seo U-jin from his life was a challenge he had overcome. The only thing Cha Ju-hyeok could not change was that his wife came to his workplace because she was brilliant and outstanding in her job in finance. After all, he could not avoid her, even though he was living his dream life*.

*Avoiding his ex will be a mental test for Cha Ju-hyeok, because it means facing his feelings, guilt, and selfishness, because in the end, a marriage works. If both partners work as a team, communicate, and nurture their love, the rest becomes excuses. Facing himself, rectifying all the changes, and recovering the life he wants to abandon presents several interesting chapters, ideal for newlyweds and those who feel trapped in the routine of life as a couple. I loved the nuance of this story, it is a mixture of fantasy and the feelings in couples that they always try to hide from each other, especially when you feel that the relationship is no longer working, you always look for someone to blame, a reason to give up without leaving the option of rectifying and fighting to improve*.