"Life is Tough, I am Tougher" ( My Introblog)

Determined. Resilient. Untiring I am great believer that with hard works no one will be left behind.    Hi I am Rommel Rusiana @rrusiana33 from Consolacion, Cebu Philippines. To those who don't know me yet please take a pause to read my story. I was born here in Cebu but my parents decided to raise us at Kalilangan Bukidnon in Mindanao. When I was six years old, we transferred and lived there with doubt like if we were be able to stay there longer cause honestly to be in that place is quite hard for a kid like me. Our life in Bukidnon had so much twists which made me think if we will survive. As a kid growing in place where farming is the only source of income and livelihood is unyielding. I asked my parents as to why we transferred knowing that our life here in Cebu is better but it was unanswered.  At an early age, I juggled work (farming) and study. During these difficult times life hits me differently. Instead of dwelling on negativity during hardship, I focus on finding opportunity and maintaining a sense of hope. I tried to make our lives better there but I don’t know how cause income was not enough to support our basic needs how much more in dealing with our wants. Fast forward, I finished Junior High School and since I can’t go to college due to financial crisis I went back to Cebu to look for easier job than farming. Not easy but better. I was hired as warehouse man in 2011 in one of well- known store here in Cebu. This time I can say all is well. After 3years of working in Cebu I decided to build my own family. I have 2 kids. I thought life this time has so much offer but I was wrong. My second child is diagnosed with cerebral palsy and possibly won’t be able to do things like normal kids can. Instead of losing hope, I strive harder to support his therapy and maintenance. Life with a warrior kid is very expensive but in God I trust. Since working as a warehouseman can’t no longer support our needs I applied for another job with bigger earnings. Gladly, I was hired as a delivery food rider. I was very thankful for the opportunity given for I am able to sustain the needs of warrior kid and the whole family.    As a delivery food rider, I encountered many challenges that tested my patience and faith. When problem comes, I never surrender instead I turn them into challenges that can hasten my capability. As days go by my warrior kid grow bigger and bigger and also the expenses itself soar. I work tirelessly not because I wanted but I need it. I never mind getting exhausted all day for as long as I can give all what my family especially my kids necessities. There’s no room for weary and drowsy moments. But despite all the courage and brave soul, there were occasions that I questioned God- why us? I know it’s unacceptable but I hope someone can testify that my feeling was valid. I am just a human being who wants also to live life without stress and too much challenges. But now a days, these feelings no longer exists. Rommel right now is UNBREAKABLE. That sums up who I am now.   Well, I think it’s time for me to introduce my hobbies and interests. Growing as a farmer planting can eliminate my stress. Also knowing that many rely to them for foods was very satisfying. Aside from that I am also a nature lover and loves walking. I am also into basketball. It is my favorite sport and I can compare it to life’s lessons as well. In basketball, you can gain strength and coordination that is good for the body. So much for this I find peace and comfort in our home where I can take care of our kids and have time to play with them. Family time is always the best.   As of now due to continuous increase in prices for commodities, income may not be sufficed. As a responsible family head, I look for another side hustle that might help me. With God grace I met @jedum , he is my co- worker, a delivery food rider too. He introduced to me the HIVE and I become interested so I grab the chance. I always believe that opportunity knocks once so we must be ready to go for it always. It’s time for me to venture in this program for I know this brings knowledge and growth and to hope that one day everything will be all right. Don’t lose hope for whatever hindrances may pass if you are eager to face them, you can break them. I am once again @rrusiana33 a son, a sibling, a good partner and a loving father saying “If not now, when?” “Lets go and discover what's in here. To more learnings to come .”