I was walking along the village road in the afternoon in a cloudy sky. The atmosphere was very beautiful. There was complete silence around. The clouds in the sky seemed to be thick. It seemed like it would rain soon, but it was a little difficult to see the rain. The heat has increased a lot in the last two or three days. Even then, I will say Alhamdulillah. While walking in a calm environment, I met someone. Suddenly, he saw me and asked me what do you mean by happiness. Actually, after hearing such a question from him, I was a little surprised. I thought for a while to answer the question of why this person asked me this question. After that, I could not find any good answer even from within myself. Then it seemed that happiness in our life means some good moments. Happiness seems to be some moments of joy.
We usually call moments of joy happiness. The word happiness is a small word, but when it comes to explaining it, we can probably do it in many ways. How much happiness is there in our lives? I have never really tried to find out. I think the best moment of my life is the moment of my well-being, the moment of my happiness, and we want to keep that moment in our lives for the rest of our lives. In fact, in every person's life, good and bad things have to go together. Some people will be completely happy all their lives, while others will be in a sea of sorrow all their lives. It never happens that way. Your future depends on how you use your time.
Some people think that I want to be the same as I am now in the future, well, good thing you want to spend the future as you are now, but for that you have to keep doing the work you have done so far, you have to keep trying to do something good, if you have started spending the wealth you have earned by working now, but you have stopped working. Then think a little about how you will be the same as you are now in the future, you will never be able to stay the same. Some steps in every person's life can change the life of a person. Some steps in every person's life can reorganize the life of a person.
For example, you and I certainly have relationships with our relatives and friends, but we never have a good relationship. Maybe we have to adapt to some and accept others. We blame ourselves for everything. But do you know one thing? The greatest happiness in a person's life is when he can spend time with his loved ones without any complaints. Without any complaints, without being arrogant, he can spend some beautiful moments with his loved ones. That is true happiness in that person's life. Maybe you have to suffer a little to get true happiness in life. And if I say the current situation, then every person is selfish. If you say so in my case, then I am also right.
But I am not so selfish that I will not help people in their distress. People of today will only form relationships with you for their own interests. When their interests run out or their work is over, they will no longer keep track of you. Even if you call them, they will never receive your calls. Far from receiving calls, they will not even reply to an SMS. What do you understand from this? As long as they had interests, they treated you well, inquired about you, tried to know about you, and when their work was over, they kept silence and left your life.
Nowadays, every person, from parents to money lovers, is crazy about money. As long as you can give to that person, feed him, fulfill his wishes, dreams, and all his needs, you can be good to that person. A person never changes just like that. A person cannot change himself suddenly even if he says so. There is a certain time in changing. Some people have certain injuries. When that person keeps getting those injuries constantly, then that person thinks that I need to change a little more. If I cannot change myself now, the future is going to bring more bad things for me.
Thinking about all these things, a person changes and the reasons behind the change are not seen by our own people around us, they start making bad comments about us, saying that this person was like this before, how did he become like this now, how did he become like this, try to know the incident behind him. Then you will be able to understand the good and bad, why that person has changed, why he has changed, you will understand for yourself. On happy days, we find all our relatives by our side, but when we are in trouble and trouble comes to our lives, then relatives, let alone our own people, do not want to keep track of us, those whom we once considered to be our closest people, they hold us back before we ask for help. There is no need to come to our house. So now my question to you is, what is happiness? Do we understand how much happiness is in our life, if we can be happy?