Me encantan las iniciativas de la comunidad de Holos&Lotus y los temas de la amiga @charjaim, pero he descubierto que a veces escribir puede servir para descargar o recargar el alma, dependiendo del uso que le demos a las palabras. Y por supuesto requieren tiempo para explicar como nos sentimos, adonde vamos y de donde venimos.
La naturaleza del viaje nos hace pensar en ese camino trazado por nuestros padres y luego por nosotros mismos, sin saber si logramos un camino en linea recta, pero siempre con buen ánimo por llegar a buen termino, lo que creemos será llegar al final del camino.
Les comparto la iniciativa si les ha llamado la atención el tema propuesto: [La naturaleza del viaje/Iniciativa №36, Esa vida nuestra](https://hive.blog/hive-131951/@charjaim/la-naturaleza-del-viaje-iniciativa).
Invitando a mirar la iniciativa para esta semana: @zhanavic69 y @beaescribe.
Desde pequeños nos vamos nutriendo con las expectativas de nuestros padres (por lo menos los mÃos), ellos siempre van a querer que seas el mejor, que tengas oportunidad de estudiar porque ellos no pudieron hacerlo. Lo que ellos me podÃan aportar en conocimiento de estudios era muy limitado, pero lo compensaban con enseñanza de trabajo y esfuerzo diario.
Nunca sabre si a los ojos de ellos cumplà con sus expectativas, si querÃan que fuera medico o una ingeniero. Pero se que se alegraron cuando me gradué de psicopedagoga por mi interés de ayudar a mi hermanito menor que era especial. Pero la vida tenia otros planes y él se fue al cielo muy pronto.
Aún asà de los cambios y saltos que nos da la vida, seguà los pasos de mi viaje, enseñar a otros niños especiales por 18 años y eso mientras formaba al mismo tiempo mi propia familia. Un camino que no tuvo muchos desvÃos, levantarse muy temprano; un esfuerzo a diario por preparar desayunos, llevar los niños a la escuela y salir corriendo para el trabajo.
Mientras los niños van creciendo en un mundo un poco diferente al que yo tuve, más socialización, nuevos interés y hasta un nuevo mundo llamado internet, con todos los peligros que ahora vemos. Los pasos del viaje iban cambiando a medida que los hijos crecen, con sus nuevos intereses, sus nuevas ideas e inquietudes. HabÃa que acomodarse a las necesidades para graduar a tres hijos.
No puedo decir que mi viaje a sido todo placido, he tenido dÃas difÃciles, he tenido dÃas que lloraba en soledad casi a diario ante los secretos que me estrujaban el alma, para que no me vieran los hijos; ya han quedado en el pasado.
No sé si tuviera la oportunidad de cambiar algo de mi pasado, yo creo que no lo cambiarÃa. Mi viaje ha tenido altas y bajas pero puedo decir que no ha sido tan malo al sacar cuentas de los dÃas buenos contra los dÃas no tan buenos. Y aunque no he contado los pasos de este viaje se que ya he recorrido un buen trecho y me van quedando menos cosas por hacer.
No puedo quejarme han sido buenos los pasos que me han llevado a muchÃsimo aprendizaje, a una época donde puedo estar conectada con muchÃsimos amigos mientras friego los platos. He podido contar historias familiares que están plasmadas en paginas imborrables. Ha valido la pena los pasos que he dado en este viaje.
**ENGLISH**  **The steps of the journey/Initiative No. 36. That life of ours**
I love the initiatives of the Holos&Lotus community and the topics of my friend @charjaim, but I've discovered that sometimes writing can serve to unburden or recharge the soul, depending on how we use the words. And of course, they require time to explain how we feel, where we're going, and where we're coming from. The nature of the journey makes us think of that path forged by our parents and then by ourselves, not knowing if we're following a straight path, but always with the courage to reach a successful conclusion, which we believe will be reaching the end of the road. I'm sharing the initiative with you if you're interested in the proposed topic: [The Nature of Travel/Initiative No. 36, Our Life](https://hive.blog/hive-131951/@charjaim/la-naturaleza-del-viaje-iniciativa). I invite you to check out this week's initiative: @zhanavic69 and @beaescribe.  From a young age, we are nurtured by the expectations of our parents (at least mine). They always want us to be the best, to have the opportunity to study because they couldn't. What they could offer me in terms of academic knowledge was very limited, but they made up for it with the teachings of hard work and daily effort.  I'll never know if I lived up to their expectations, whether they wanted me to be a doctor or an engineer. But I know they were happy when I graduated with a degree in educational psychology because of my interest in helping my little brother, who was special. But life had other plans, and he went to heaven too soon.  Despite the twists and turns life throws at us, I continued my journey, teaching other special needs children for 18 years while simultaneously raising my own family. A path that didn't have many detours, waking up very early; a daily effort to prepare breakfast, get the kids to school, and rush off to work.   While the children are growing up in a world a little different from the one I had, more socialization, new interests, and even a new world called the internet, with all the dangers we now see. The steps of the journey changed as the children grew, with their new interests, new ideas, and concerns. We had to accommodate the needs of graduating three children.  I can't say my trip has been entirely peaceful. I've had difficult days, days when I cried alone almost daily over the secrets that wrung from my soul, so my children wouldn't see them; they're all in the past.  I don't know if I had the chance to change anything about my past, but I don't think I would. My journey has had its ups and downs, but I can say it hasn't been that bad when you count the good days versus the not-so-good days. And although I haven't counted the steps on this journey, I know I've already come a long way and have fewer things left to do. I can't complain; the steps have been good, leading me to a lot of learning, to a time when I can connect with so many friends while I wash the dishes. I've been able to tell family stories that are captured in indelible pages. The steps I've taken on this journey have been worth it.    Fotos con fuente identificadas MovÃl realme 5 pro y Xiaomi 12T Pro Traducido con google (versión gratuita)
Photos with source identified Mobile realme 5 pro and Xiaomi 12T Pro Translated with google (free version)
**ENGLISH**  **The steps of the journey/Initiative No. 36. That life of ours**
I love the initiatives of the Holos&Lotus community and the topics of my friend @charjaim, but I've discovered that sometimes writing can serve to unburden or recharge the soul, depending on how we use the words. And of course, they require time to explain how we feel, where we're going, and where we're coming from. The nature of the journey makes us think of that path forged by our parents and then by ourselves, not knowing if we're following a straight path, but always with the courage to reach a successful conclusion, which we believe will be reaching the end of the road. I'm sharing the initiative with you if you're interested in the proposed topic: [The Nature of Travel/Initiative No. 36, Our Life](https://hive.blog/hive-131951/@charjaim/la-naturaleza-del-viaje-iniciativa). I invite you to check out this week's initiative: @zhanavic69 and @beaescribe.  From a young age, we are nurtured by the expectations of our parents (at least mine). They always want us to be the best, to have the opportunity to study because they couldn't. What they could offer me in terms of academic knowledge was very limited, but they made up for it with the teachings of hard work and daily effort.  I'll never know if I lived up to their expectations, whether they wanted me to be a doctor or an engineer. But I know they were happy when I graduated with a degree in educational psychology because of my interest in helping my little brother, who was special. But life had other plans, and he went to heaven too soon.  Despite the twists and turns life throws at us, I continued my journey, teaching other special needs children for 18 years while simultaneously raising my own family. A path that didn't have many detours, waking up very early; a daily effort to prepare breakfast, get the kids to school, and rush off to work.   While the children are growing up in a world a little different from the one I had, more socialization, new interests, and even a new world called the internet, with all the dangers we now see. The steps of the journey changed as the children grew, with their new interests, new ideas, and concerns. We had to accommodate the needs of graduating three children.  I can't say my trip has been entirely peaceful. I've had difficult days, days when I cried alone almost daily over the secrets that wrung from my soul, so my children wouldn't see them; they're all in the past.  I don't know if I had the chance to change anything about my past, but I don't think I would. My journey has had its ups and downs, but I can say it hasn't been that bad when you count the good days versus the not-so-good days. And although I haven't counted the steps on this journey, I know I've already come a long way and have fewer things left to do. I can't complain; the steps have been good, leading me to a lot of learning, to a time when I can connect with so many friends while I wash the dishes. I've been able to tell family stories that are captured in indelible pages. The steps I've taken on this journey have been worth it.    Fotos con fuente identificadas MovÃl realme 5 pro y Xiaomi 12T Pro Traducido con google (versión gratuita)
Photos with source identified Mobile realme 5 pro and Xiaomi 12T Pro Translated with google (free version)