Greetings! https://youtu.be/cxCDMZmQnRw?si=bGV_9q5mGvld1J3I Seeking for a wife should not be our duty as human as God would always provide for us a wife.
According to the book of Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him and help meet for him.
In the scripture above, it's not Adam that seeks for a wife for himself, but it's God Almighty who knew that he needed a wife, a help to meet and that's why he provided him one.
So, looking at this, God knows when we need and need not a wife and he will always give us one at the apportioned time.
Also, in Proverbs 19:14 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers and a prudent wife is from the LORD.
In the scripture above, we were made to know that every other thing is the inheritance of the father, those things include house and riches, but one that is of the Lord is a prudent wife.
So, when seeking for a prudent wife according to this particular teaching of Bro. Eli, we should know that it's from the Lord and that we cannot get it on our desire.
In conclusion, seeking for a wife might not be necessarily necessary as it's only God that gives a wife when a wife is needed by us as he has done for Adam. So, we should not in any case bother ourselves in seeking for a wife as a prudent wife is only from the Lord.
Thanks for reading.