They help to create hope, bring positivity and desire to live.

When Dad was in hospital, I stayed with him round the clock, telling him all positive things, boosting his moral. But at times I felt he needed more inspiration and that is why I called upon the lady and the kid to come to hospital and spend time with him. And it brought a big difference - couple of hours with them over a cup of tea drove his desire to come back to home and I kind of utilized that moment to remind him to get well soon and come out of hospital.

As Mom was staying alone at home, she talked to him over video calls on a daily basis, thanks to technology which provides means to connect during these times. She wanted to come and stay for some time in hospital but then I did not feel it was right as it could further complicate the situation if she falls sick.

And I must proudly say that I have a very good friend circle who after hearing the news of he coming back to home, came to meet him and encouraged with all positive vibes.

They are very close friends for more than three decades and often used to come to home when we were in twenties. Back then no permission was needed - people from our gen X still have that habit - we still go without any information or seeking permission, and they exactly did that. Dad knows them personally and spending some time with them further helped him gain confidence. Back in college times, my friends would often eat at a particular stall and request Dad to pay and Dad would never disappoint them - he was very friendly with my friends and even won't listen to me.

These are the moments which reminds us why we need family and close friends - they bring positive energy during these moments and nothing else can fill that place. At times I wonder about the future and our kids - they don't have very close friends and mostly end up with virtual engagements that barely can fill the emotional aspects of life. So they will need a much better family life, but that trend also does not look very promising. How would they deal with such difficult times ?

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