Truth is something that can be very much comforting and very hurtful at the same time and that is something which we all seek all the time in our life because we can like the sugar coated versions of something but the truth is something that we all want to have regardless of which our nature It has within itself but Innova live there are certain moments when a particular truth hits us like no other and it can leave a very big impact on us and much more in comparison to the other truths that we have experience in our life.
Whenever we are coming across a particular truth which was something that we never really expected the entire situation becomes a lot more dramatic and when it is something which is going to be the exact opposite of what we use to believe it becomes even more problematic for us to even think of that it is the real truth and it becomes very difficult for us to even swallow and this is something which is going to be face by everyone in their life in some point or another.
One of the biggest truths that I learned in the hardest of ways was about the fact that we can't keep people in our lives and make them stay with force because it is something that can never really happen, and it was something that I tried very hard, but learnt this truth in the hardest of ways. There have been a lot of life lessons that I will learn, but I feel this was the biggest one for me, as it was something that I tried so hard to keep and maintain, but in the end, I realized that all the efforts were something that I never meant to be.
They used to be a very close friend of mine who was in my life for a very long period and we shared a very amazing Bond which was so long that it could stretch to more than a decade and we had a great relationship with each other but there used to be something that went a little bit different after we move to different places as will live together for about 10 years and then suddenly when we move away from each other It seem like there was something that was off.
Initially everything was alright and be used to be communicating on a very frequent basis and use to talk about our problems and discuss a lot of things together but slowly it became a thing which became increasing a noticeable as there were lesser amount of calls and conversations became smaller in size and there was a kind of ignorance that I started to feel in our relationship from their side it was very confusing for me as it was completely unexpected.
Later on it started to hurt me quite a bit as we share a very amazing relationship which was something that never really could have had anything like this which we are having right now and that is why I gave in a lot of efforts to again have that same amount of spark which we use to have and maintain the bond and I felt that it will be worth it. But as I started to do all of those things and try to make us work, it was something that started to show that I can't be controlling what they want to be doing and the opinions that they have with me, which is something that broke me.
And slowly the bond that we had for such a long period drifted away as if it never really existed and meant nothing it impacted me quiet a lot and after everything was over I thought it was me who was the culprit in all of this and was responsible for the born to break away and started to blame myself and used to think about ways which I could have done a bit differently to make it work but later on is slowly realise that it was nothing to have to do with me but it was there on choice with they actually made as I did try to convince them to stay and also think about what we used to be and there is no problem as such which can initiate this kind of move but they did it anyway.
I used to believe in that I could actually make them stay in my life with my efforts and I can make them believe in what we had in terms of the bond that we shade which was something that was never going to happen but initially I didn't understand it and try to force them to same which eventually didn't work out and it was a lesson that I learnt and the harsh truth about this particular aspect is also something that I learnt from them which surely stings a little bit I think that I learnt from that whole experience.
Later on that whole thing change my perspective about this particular aspect completely and I understand the fact that people can be someone who can mean a lot to you and the very next day they can be stranger as well and no point in making someone stay by force wants to leave which is going to hurt us only in the end and that is something which we should try to avoid to not have that kind of problem with our self knowing the fact that it is not going to be working as well.
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