There is no is that we stop learning anything and everyone then we often get some sort of lesson that we never had previously and that is what our journey in life is all about and one of the biggest teachers that we can learn from his going to be life itself because they experiences which life is going to be making us go through is going to be the situations which is going to shape us into something that we might have never become and those are the lessons which we learn even if we thought it to be quite and expected as well.
It is not going to be pretty easy and straight forward for us to understand the lessons that we can learn from life as it is always going to be very much well rooted inside the complex situations that life throws at us and that is win it becomes quite unexpected as well because there are a lot of situations which we thought to be completely different but at the end with end up learning a kind of lesson out of it and one of those unexpected things or lessons that life has taught me is surely going to be the fact that the control which we feel like having on almost everything is something that is just an illusion.
You all believe that we have sort of control on all of the things that we are doing and especially in our life the things which were involved in as well as the things that we want to be doing and a lot of other things as well which are going to be covered in an over all level in it is what is thought by us to be the once were controlling it or at least can modify it or influence it in a very big manner but it is not always the case because it is just a believe which we have with an own self but in reality we have control over nothing.
Everything that we do as well as all the decisions that we make are very much pre plan and thought of well in advance even before implementing them and that is something which gives us a kind of mindset that we are having the kind of control in all of the aspects in our life because it is going to be working as the way we have already planned and also even if it does not go as per the plan that we made we also have some backup plans which is going to be helping us out and in the end everything will be under our control.
But as life pants out we often find ourselves in unexpected situations and the things which we were not ready for and the situations that we are right now in that particular point which is something that was not a part of our plan we start to think of it as a very big inconvenience and more like a betrayal which we feel in that particular phase because all of the plans that we made didn't work out the way we thought and that is something which is the very big indication that even if we have everything sorted out we might not have full control over everything that can be a lot of an expected things which we can never even think of.
There have been many personal incidents that I have experienced in my life which has taught me this particular fact again and again which has Now made me believe the fact that control is something that is just basically and illusion which we all think to possess but at the same time it is something that we don't have at everything but surely there is a sense of control in a lot of other things but at the same time we need to realise the fact that there can be things which can very easily go out of our control and we might find ourself in such as situation when we have nothing to do and we need to be ready for those situations as well rather than being over confident about being fully in control.
Every single person does whatever they do and the efforts that they given in search of something and they believe that they are going to be able to control all of the factors which are going to be necessary to influence that situation in their manner which is something that needs to be done but at the same time it is also something that can very easily not work out as well and that is why we should always this particular fat and make sure that we are letting go off that particular mind set of controlling everything in our life which is not going to be something that is going to guarantee as a 100% probability.
However we should never be stop been responsible for whatever we do and every activity as well as decision we make is needed to be taken complete responsibility from our side and we need to be dedicated from our end in the maximum potential which we can have even if we are aware of the fat that there can be a lot of things which might not be in our control but at the same time we need to be always stepping up and looking forward towards every single manner with which we can be adding up any value.
In the end control is something that is always going to be sea by us because it is always going to be giving us a bit of comfort in the cloud of uncertainty is that we are surrounded with but at the same time it is also something that we need to realise the fact that it surely is not going to be always working out as we planted and that is why we always need to be ready for the unexpected things which we can face and all of that is needed to be faced by a very big amount of determination as well because regardless so whatever happens we need to be prepared from our side and we completely dedicated for everything put in.
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