The Dangerous Myth of “I Can Do It All” and How It Silently Held Me Back

@sayu907 · 2025-08-13 18:19 · FreeCompliments

Advices are one of those aspects which are a big part of our life and their Omni present almost at every single face that we are going to be coming across including the people that was surrounded with who are going to be dropping their source of knowledge in terms of the things that we are involved with so that we might have a better attempt in the thing that we are doing and sometimes it is extremely valuable but at the same time it can be quite useless as well in many occasion and that is my it becomes quit important to be very much careful while even thinking about considering that advice.

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There have been plenty of different kind of opinions and interactions which have had in respect to the things that I am involved in from the people around me and that has led to a lot of advices that have received from them among them there have been a lot which I implemented in my journey and got very amazing results but at the same time there were many of them which I definitely thought were completely useless and never really consider them but later on their were a lot of situations when I realised that it was something that could have had great impact on my journey which I didn't even think of.

That particular moment, it just becomes a particular thing when I just keep on wondering how different things could have been if I actually listened to that particular advice and implemented it, which could have yielded a lot of Amazing results. And if only one such advice is asked me if I could have turn back time and listen to that particular device and implemented that to its core then I would think of just one advice that was given from one of my teachers who notice that I was trying to be involved in a lot of things at once and improving all of the things at one time without focusing on just a particular thing which was a thing that I like doing and he told me that there is no need to be rushing and trying to do everything and you should have gone deep into one thing not wide.

It was something that I instantly didn't even consider for just a moment as well and just carried on with the things and the plans that I had that point of time because I just for that if I can handle all of the things that one and managing them in a very good manner I felt it was the most logical thing to be just doing it and not pushing myself back. I thought that particular advice was completely useless and very irrelevant then because I was involved in a lot of things at once and trying to improve myself in all of them, but not getting the proper amount of focus in every individual one of them was something I never really thought about then.

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One of the biggest reasons why ignored that particular advise and that point of time was the fact that I felt that if I don't get involved in every single one of them then I might miss out on a lot of other opportunity and that fear of getting behind the competition was something that post me to do all of those things as well as it was also quite exciting to be involved in new things and there is a kind of thought process with in myself which is going to be very much excited with the new things and that interest is not long lasting it is very short lived but initially it is always going to be giving me thrills and was one of the primary reasons why I started to get involved in new things very frequently.

But over the years the mind set which I carried of getting involved in a lot of things at once was something that started to show its flaws as I was never really expert in each of the thing that I was involved in I yes I had a lot of skill in every single aspect which I was involved in but there was a huge number of people who were better than me in every single one of those aspects which made me realise this particular Fact and was a very hard realisation for me because I was distributing my energy in every single one of those aspects rather than channeling all of it in a single place which could have given me allotment result and that point of time I remembered that advise which I am got from my teacher in my childhood but I completely ignored it.

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I used to feel very exhausted while doing all of those things because it was not satisfying for me as I was not getting the desired result in every single one of those aspects and it was just because I was not able to dedicate all of my time and energy along with my efforts in a single place which would have surely given me better results in every single one of those individual aspects if I just focus on one but because of my own mind set I was not able to get the potential out of myself.

It was a very dramatic realisation for me and I regretted quite a lot for just ignoring that advise which I had ears ago but not even implementing it which would have had a great and positive impact on my entire life along with the things that I was involved in and and that point of time a realise the cost that I paid just for ignoring it and it was very late for me because I wasted a lot of years and many skills that I could have made a lot better along with the fact that I miss a lot of opportunities.

Eventually after so many years and a lot of these kind of realisations I started to implemented in my online and it was something that give me a lot of satisfaction when I was able to dedicate all of my energy and time in a single place as the amount of outcome that you can get from a single place by dedicating all of your efforts is much bigger in comparison to when we distributed to many things that one and it was I think that could give you some sort of outcome rather than doing a lot of things at once and ending up with unfinished things.


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