There are a lot of bonds that we create across our life which we are actually going to be spending around people itself because we are very social in nature because of that we are always going to be looking forward towards creating bonds with other people as well as those are the ones which are going to be created with every single person that we are surrounded with it can be right from our family to the people that we are working with and the classmates that we are studying with and going to be getting created a kind of Bond with them.
One of the most common bonds that we make with people is obviously going to be that one of the friends that we are going to make across our life and those are going to be one of the most important bonds as well that we are going to be ever having in our life because there are a lot of factors which can't ever be even compared with the other bonds in terms of the friends that we are having. After all, there are a lot of such things which are only going to be done with our only friends.
There are many factors that people are always going to be looking forward to to notice before making someone their friend, and even after making them, it is obviously going to be even more important to look for that one particular factor that is going to be the most important one for every single person, and that can be completely different for people.
Many people would definitely pic the most important factor that would be going to matter the most for their friends is going to be about loyalty and at the same time many people can also look forward towards making that most important factor to be that of honesty or even humour and there can be many such factors which can be important for them but if I am asked about the most important and defining factor in any friendship then I would definitely say it to be trustworthiness.
Trust is obviously one of the most important factors for me in any kind of Bond, and when it comes to friendshi,p it often becomes one of the most fundamental aspects upon which friendship is built and it is definitely going to be one of the most important things because it actually define the value of people involved in that friendship, which makes it even more important.
It is always going to be much more than just keeping secrets within each other but it goes down to even making sure that the other person feels safe with them along with that we never have to be pretending something that we are not in front of those people and have that ability to trust them with our raw self which is never going to be putting any kind of pressure on us to be just doing something that we don't really want to be to just satisfy the other person and we can just be as we are.
The biggest things that trustworthtiness can be helping us achieve is going to be the fat that it is going to be giving us that safe emotional space which is extremely important as well because when we are raw with someone else we are going to be completely our true them and can express our emotions just the way they are by not having to pretend anything apart from what we are originally feeling and having the ability to have such kind of person in front of whom we can be completely original is extremely priceless.
One of the biggest problems that we have with friendships is going to be about the fact that if the person we are friends with our spelling of the truth or if the really meant whatever they said and when it comes to having a person upon which we can have our complete 100% trust we don't have these kind of second third and vi can bi completely sure of the fact that whatever they said the mainted and whatever we are going to be saying to them they are also going to be having the same perception about us which is going to be only happening if we are having trust among each other.
However trust is also something that is not very easy to build and it also requires a lot of efforts to be maintaining it as well which is why it obviously is one of the most important factors for me but at the same time it is not something that is very easily found which makes it even more important and once it is found it can be one of the best bonds that we can have in any way and having such a friend is obviously a very great thing to be having.
In the end friendship is obviously one of the most important bonds that we are going to be creating in our life and it can obviously be very complicated and their can be many factors that can be essential to be maintaining and developing friendship with people but at the same time there can be certain factors that can have more important than the others and for me it is obviously going to be about trust which is something that matters the most me because upon that particular aspect everything else can be built.
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