We humans are very social in nature and that is why we are always looking forward towards creating bonds with other people as it is something that is very much necessary to be actually living in the society that we belong to another same time all of this has made our mind set in a way that we are always going to be looking forward towards having some sort of validation from other people and that is obviously going to be making a face a lot of such situation when we are going to be liked by the people and other same time we are also going to be finding us in situations when people are not going to be liking us.
While growing up we are always going to be coming across a lot of situations which we are going to be getting through in order to be tested in terms of the respect that we might get along with the fact that we are being liked and disrespected at the same time and all of this makes the whole situation a lot more Complex because both of these aspects definitely have their own weight but when they both combine in a complex manner it is definitely not so very easy situation to deal with.
It is obviously going to be a very natural feeling to be thinking about the fat that it will be very nice if we are going to be getting both like and respected at the same time but it is obviously not going to be that very simple the way it seems because there is obviously going to be situations when their must be a thing that is going to be prioritised over the other which is when a very big debate comes up and the fact that which one should be chosen is a very big question because which among respect and like is more greater.
Been liked this something that is obviously going to be a very common aspect because whenever people are looked as been someone that they can be very much enjoyable around to be at along with the fat that day or someone with whom we can agree upon a lot of things and their can be a lot of reasons why people can like someone which can be their characteristics which makes them likeable and also the fact that people can share some sort of interest which can be a big reason for them been liked by others.
But on the other hand when it comes to respect it is something that is quite different than just simple lightness because people are only going to be respected in someone else if there able to acknowledge the skills that they have to offer along with the things that they believe in and the authority that the hold and all of these things combining together is going to be making sure that someone is going to be respecting every single one of those aspects in someone else which is going to be bringing that respect from within but at the same time all of that is also going to be making sure that it necessarily does not mean that people will be enjoying to be with them but surely they can respect them.
our brain works in such a manner that we are always going to be enjoying the sense of feeling when people are liking us because it is always going to be making a free in a very good manner as we are getting socially accepted and there are a lot of things that are involved with it but at the same time it can also be something that is very fragile as people can have their opinion change within a few seconds of a simple situation that wind differently and in that situation it my definitely be a little bit hard for us to deal with because of that temporary nature as people may feel very differently just in a very short span of time.
People also do given efforts in order to be like by other people which is something that definitely makes them lose their own self in a manner that they are always going to be trying to do things that people are going to light which is something that they probably might not have done if it was not the case that they wanted to be like by other people and all of this is actually going to be having a long term influence over us as we are going to be trying to be something that we are not which is actually going to be losing our own self.
But when it comes to respect it is not something that can be easily made to exist because it is needed to be earned with our own actions and a lot of other things as well because of which it is very hard to be done as well as we are going to be needed to be showing other people what we can do and the skills that we have to offer along with the actions that we do take which is not only going to be about the charm that we carry which can make people like us but at the same time but the integrity which is going to be pushing us through all of those situations and that is something which will definitely be making people respect someone.
It is very natural for us to be feeling that we are going to be requiring both of those aspects with in our ownself and that is why we Crave to be respected and light at the same time which is definitely something that can be a very natural thing that we feel and there is needed to be making sure that we are figuring out a way with which we can be balancing both of them and not trying to be manipulate any single one of them which is actually not going to be working in the long run.
In the end we need to understand the fact that this is not a choice that we have to be making because it is something that is obviously going to be needed to be built over a long period of time along with a lot of efforts that are needed to be given in but at the same time we are also not needed to be doing something out of our own self to be pleasing someone else in order to be getting light and their needs to be a balance between like and respect in our life which is something that we should be ensuring as only that is going to be something that will be a healthy aspect to be involved in.
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