There are a lot of different experiences that we have to face. To be going through all of them we do pick up a lot of habits that are going to be quite necessary to be surviving in those particular environment and the things that we gain in terms of the habits do get to us because of the things that we experience as well as the lessons that you have learnt in the past as well as a lot of other things as well because we need to be changing ourselves in a way that is going to be making a capable in that particular situation.
But at the same time, life is something that is always changing and is very dynamic, which is my many habits become obsolete after a particular point in time. Still, it is not so easy to drop them in an instant and that becomes an invisible luggage that we keep on carrying which is something that is not much discussed or is also something that is also Never Getting enough amount of attention to it but is something that is a big thing that is influencing our life in the present as well but is adding no valued to it or atleast the way we intended it to be.
We all have those kind of habits which is something that we pick up in the past because of some reason and that was something that help does get through that particular situation and experience but after a time it was something that was not much useful for us but it is also something that you are still caring and one of those particular things which is with me is going to be the habit of pleasing people and it was something that I had in the past and it was quite useful as well but right now I feel that it is something that is never needed to be done.
There are a lot of chaotic environments that all of us do go through and is always going to be something that is going to be making a lot of changes within our ownself and that is what is going to be a particular thing that we need to be getting a lot of attention to because in those particular time we are going to be shaping ourself in a which is going to be having a lot of impact and influence on our entire life even after a very long period have travelled because it is going to be getting into our personality very deeply and become a trait that we carry.
When I was young it was a particular period when there were a lot of things that we happening around me but one of the most influential things that made me pick up this habit of pleasing on the people was the fact that whenever I used to be doing something that people wanted me to do I used to get a lot of amazing complements and they were something that meant a lot to me as a kid and the person thing that just keep on growing within myself later on it was so much that I always look forward towards pleasing people even in my school and later on in my workplace and that was something that is a part of my habit.
After period it was something that was not so chaotic environment which I was in where I never really needed to me pleasing people within my surroundings and that was something which made me feel that the thing that I was doing was meaning to other people but I was harming my ownself in this process as I was putting other people in front of me in the priority list which was something that should not be done as we should be thinking about your self as making things done in the manner that other people want us to do can be contradicting with what we want to be doing.
I used to be looking at this habit as a particular thing that was great survival tool because you can instantly get the approval of a lot of people and also get a positive Vibe about your ownself from people very easily if you are having this particular habit and I used to think that this is something that is really needed for survival but later on many situations expose this particular habit to be something that was the thing that people are going to be using other people for and that was really big realisation for me.
It was a habit that I had from the very childhood and practiced for so many years and that is why it was very difficult for me to let go it so easily because it was something that I used to be doing as a thing that I thought would be giving me a lot of good amount of outcome for me but later on when the realisation start me I started to move away from this habit as one of the first step that I to want to be setting some boundaries in that particular aspect which was difficult for me but help me quite a lot and gradually it help me define my self worth.
It was not very easy to let go of a habit that I thought to be as one of my survival tools because there is a very big amount of guilt attached to it. After all, it was a mind said that I had for a very long period and believed in as well and that realisation that it is something that is not a right thing to do is something that is always going to be putting a lot of pressure on you and that entire journey is not so easy but surely we need to be letting go off the habits that are no longer serving us in any manner and whatever things that is going to beat making us realise the particular aspect we should be looking forward to it and implemented as soon as we can because caring some unwanted luggage can influence our life in a manner which we might never have wanted.
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