The world that we are living in today is very Rapid Pace and almost every month is looking forward towards achieving something and trying to give efforts for the things that they want to be making a reality for them and all of this has led to an environment where we all are just working tirelessly and the lifestyle that we have developed his often insurance that we are very much self centric and this fast paced lifestyle has made us much more involved in our things only.
There are a lot of skills that people always want to be getting in their self and the value of the skills that they gain often have a lot to offer within themselves and that is why there is a very big demand of several skills that people want to be inculcating within their self but in the same time we often do not me attention to many such scared that could have made a really big impact and it remains to be a very underrated one.
Everyone is looking forward towards achieving technical greatness as well as also the credentials that is going to be looking as a very flashy ones in the society itself along with many soft skills such as good communication skills and a lot of other kind of aspects which is something that is given much more importance but in the same time one of the most underrated skills that many people don't be much attention to is to be just the simple active listening.
Many people would feel that listening a something that even doesn't qualify as a scale because it is something that happens automatically but at the same time true listening is something that is a very important aspect and can have a lot of Amazing impact on our life if done properly because it is not just something that we are listening to what the other person is saying but to be getting involved in that converts station and paying maximum amount of attention as well as engaging within the whole interaction in our full and true self.
Active listening is something that has never got much attention because it doesn't look to be as a very glamorous skill to be having because many people believe that it happens automatically and doesn't require much effort to be thinking about it but at the same time it is something that definitely requirements a lot of discipline to be able to use it properly as we often are involved in a lot of conversations but are actually being half the attention that we can do and not even getting involved in it and that is something which is pulling as back from a lot of opportunity is which we could have created for our self.
One of the most common life examples that you can have which listening can solved is to be the problems that we are involved in because most of the problem is that we are surrounded with requires a little bit of proper listening from outside because when we are not able to completely understand the actual scenario we are not going to be able to provide the best solution that it required and if it do it initially itself then it can be one of the best things that can be done.
One of the biggest problems that you can have to be preparing yourself to be active listener is to be getting away from all of the distractions because that is one of the biggest barriers that you can face as be on surrounded with a lot of distractions in our busy life style which is not letting us involve in some very pure listening and apart from that we also are having our thought process that is going to be clashing with what the other person is saying because we might have a different approach in the proper situation and the speaker is having something else which is going to never let the pace be the same in that particular conversation which can also be a be problem.
One of the best things that we can be doing to be becoming a very good and active listener is to be trying to involved on self in all the conversations and just be attention to whatever is being said without having any kind of thoughts and just listen to whatever is been send and that is going to be building a mind set full of your city with in our self this is going to be promoting listening quite a lot along with that we should be comfortable with everything that is happening in that conversation and not let our emotions take over until the very end.
In the end there are a lot of skills that people are chasing to have in their own life but one of the most under heated skills is to be a very good active listener which can have a lot of benefits in our life as it can unlock a lot of opportunities which might remain hidden just in plane side even if we are involved in it but if we are paying attention to it we can note is them and make a lot of complex situation a lot more simpler then what we find them to be.
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