Sometimes ago, I had a friend who had a very awkward conception and mindset about women.
On a very cool day, we where together and he said; I can not marry a woman who earns more than me, a working class lady or a sophisticated woman. He actually ended his statement with, my woman would be useful in my farm, my culture believes and measures a woman's worth by the amount of work she can do in her husbands farm.
And am like what the hell; she a sophisticated woman, so what? She earns more than you and so what? What happens? She can't be a women because she earns more than you? Or she's a working class?
Waw; you really must have taught the world revolves around you and your family or culture. And so what happens if she can't farm? What happens if she is sophisticated and a career woman? She becomes a threat to you ego. I just stood up and left.
One funny part was, the lady he was talking to, was actually not a person who had ever picked a hoe to farm, talk more of being measured by the amount of work done in a farm land😅😅😅😅. I walked away, I went home, and that was the end of what never started.