Ghosting is one such practice that simply leaves the other person confused and hurt. It make the person wondering why the relationship ended or if something happened to them, rather than giving them closure. I am that kind of person who never wants anyone to hurt due to any of the action. Even if i crack a joke or mouthed some bad words to person. I used to simply walknto them and make things clearer. Ghosting is absolutely haunting to some who suffers. Now I cannot expect the same from everyone to be like me. But when i faced the situation, I am still confuse.
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I am not going to disclose the person identity, but he used to be very close to me. We had some good times and went for many travel trip. We keep a close rapport. The other person did some mischief to someone else which bring bad name to him. He never disclose the true facts to me. Whenever I tried to get in touch or try to communicate to understand what he is going through, he stopped entertaining me. I even messaged him, but not entertain. I tried to start few conversation but he usually avoided. At many occasion he avoided to face me, and simply walk. His behavior is simply disgusting and now after month of same reaction I too avoided any action from my side. All these days I tried my best to sort the issue. But he does not wanted to share neither wanted to listen. There is nothing from my part but again he does not seems to be comfortable with my presence.
Fading away like a distant dream
The way he is behaving, can be a sign of disinterest or a lack of meaningful connection in our relationship. It is important, for a person to be respectful and do not lose the self respect in process of convincing other. Being ghosted can be deeply painful and confusing, leaving me feeling lost and questioning what we did wrong. The sudden silence and lack of closure can be a form of social rejection that activates pain networks in the brain, similar to physical pain. After all these months, I left wondering if the person is okay or if the relationship simply ended, creating significant uncertainty about the situation.
Leaving behind a trail of unanswered questions
After a many attempt,and not getting any positive responce from the other party, I accepted the fate of our relationship. Rather than being in the atate of pain and stress due to overthinking, it is best to accept that the person is gone and to move on with your life and focus on your well-being. I have been doing that lately. The rapport that we use to share is no more between us. He started avoiding any contact with me. Seeing his attitude, i too get silent, and after month of confusion and doubts, I moved on! But i know there is still room left for him. May be someday he approach me and say sorry for #ghosting me all these days.
In good faith - Peace!!
