I feel the same way about helping people. I don’t like it when people count scores. It’s the same thing as giving birthday gifts. I love giving birthday gifts to people but, don’t like people thinking they owe me.
I gave a friend a cash gift early this year and when it got to my birthday we weren’t as close as before. When it was my birthday, she gave me the exact money I gave her as a gift. To me, it felt like she was returning the gift all in the name of giving me a gift. It honestly defeated the essence of the gift.
@hopestylist thanks for sharing such a relatable post.