Less, But Better

 Adopting a minimalist lifestyle has been one of the most refreshing choices I’ve made. At first, I thought minimalism was just about owning fewer things or sticking to neutral colors, but I’ve learned that it’s more about being intentional with what I choose to keep close. For me, minimalism in fashion started when I stopped admiring every new trendy thing I walked by or saw online and daydreaming of affording them. There was also a time I shopped endlessly. I would take both what was needed and what wasn’t because I felt the need to keep a full closet.  In February, I did a thorough closet clean up, because I figured I’ve been buying what doesn’t describe or fit “me.” I have been following trends and purchasing things that I really don’t get to wear especially because it doesn’t fit my body type. With that, I curated a small wardrobe of reliable fits and my cousin has really helped me too as she runs a thrift business so she shows me new affordable go-to fits that will look good on me. Outfits I love. What I love most about her brand is the slogan that says “slay doesn’t have to be expensive” [tic].  I mostly get things like a good pair of black jeans, free gowns, a white shirt or a basic top and a jacket. You know clothes that can transition from casual to formal if they have to. I have also figured that I no longer have this overwhelming feeling of trying to decide what to wear each morning. Dressing has become simpler, faster and somehow, more “me.”  Minimalism also spilled into my living space. Some young people’s rooms I see on TikTok filled with decorations almost made me fill mine up too even when I couldn’t really afford it but I’m glad the realization hit me fast that I didn’t need a room full of decor to feel at home. Just my clean desk, one cozy chair and a perfect window for the sun to peep in every morning did more for my peace of mind than clutter ever could. It turns out, fewer things give me more clarity.  If I had to share my favorite minimalist fashion hack, it would be this: invest in timeless basics that mix and match effortlessly. Not only does it save money and time, but it also frees you from the pressure of keeping up with every fleeting trend.  Minimalism has taught me that style isn’t about how much you own, but how well what you own represents you. And for me, that’s the real definition of freedom. >Images used are mine.