The High Price of Newfound Wealth and Status

It deeply bothers me when people start acting superior because their social status changes. I've noticed this happen often when someone begins dating a new partner who introduces them to a much wealthier world. The relationship dynamic suddenly shifts and it seems like that person forgets all about the close friends who were once their biggest supporters.  [source](https://pixabay.com/illustrations/women-sisterhood-support-friendship-7913460/) I've witnessed friends who relied on each other for everyday emotional support through various life struggles. But when one friend started dated someone from an influential, affluent family, their whole personality changed. Suddenly it was all about luxurious vacations, expensive restaurants, and the latest designer fashion without a thought to saving money or their past lifestyle. I understand when you've dated people just getting by paycheck to paycheck, it must be thrilling to suddenly have access to this glamorous new world. Still, it’s sad to watch them shed their deeper relationships. The tastes and status symbols of this wealthy new world soon dominate all conversations. Yet when old friends try to update them on real life struggles ,career issues, family health problems - their eyes glaze over. The friendship has turned into a one-way street fueled by social climbing. I’ve seen birthdays or special traditions brushed aside last minute when the new partner surprises them with an extravagant getaway or event. It’s got to hurt when you feel tossed aside so thoughtlessly ,like you don't even merit a conversation before getting bumped for something shinier. The worst part is they seem to interpret everything positively in terms of their own life. In their mind, they’ve earned access into this elite new world through fate and they take pride in the picture perfect lifestyle they now project. Their old social circles carry little importance next to the flashy new existence. In your heart, you want to feel happy when friends seize fun opportunities and find stability. But when someone absorbs this elite influence so completely into their identity, it’s very troubling. They behave as if they were better than their old contacts all along, and those people should admire their ascent. But it all feels so empty. Of course people evolve, grow distant from former friends, and change priorities. But losing relationships to one-sided social climbing leaves damage. If only they recognized that prioritizing status and wealth can never emotionally satisfy you the way human connection can. When people get distracted by appearances and superficiality, they lose a part of who they are - that thoughtful, grounded person so valuable to those who know them best. Unfortunately status and career too often transform people’s mindsets away from empathy and reciprocity in relationships. I’ve learned you can’t let money or social position overly influence how you view those closest to you or yourself. The cost of superficiality is too high. What matters most is staying grounded, vulnerable, and surrounded by people who appreciate you beyond any measure of status. *** --- ***Thanks for reading here*** *** ---