Aciertos y desaciertos de encajar en sociedad/Iniciativa 37/Esa vida nuestra/ESP-ENG

Saludos amigas, y algunos amigos, aunque somos mas las féminas que escribimos aquí, pero se que también ellos nos leen. Recibí una invitación a esta iniciativa, después de leer el origen del mismo, dije bueno claro que le entro. La sociedad, vivimos en ella, por que no hay de otra, en ella encontramos de todo, a quien le agradamos, a quien no, unos son sinceros con nosotros, como también los que dicen son amigos y no lo son, solo por algún interés.

Desde niños sufrimos digamos ese rechazo por alguna razón, pero que yo recuerde de pequeña, en mi adolescencia, todo bien, encajaba en todos, sera porque era chévere, me la llevaba bien con todos, y si alguna vez no llegue a encajar no me lo dijeron, así que bueno seguí mi vida. Pero parece mentira que a veces resulta que en los adultos se dan estos casos. Me paso en la escuela donde trabaje hasta que me jubile, en todos los trabajos siempre hay este tipo de situaciones, diferencias de opiniones, pasajeras, pero aquí si me di cuenta y no paso desapercibido.

Resulta que llega una nueva secretaria, y con ella me saque la rifa, porque no se pero yo como que no encajaba en su circulo, pero a mi eso ni me iba, ni me venia, yo tenia mas tiempo en la escuela y ya sabían como soy. Me gustaba apoyar, colaborar, con todos en la escuela, me destacaba en la organización de las actividades en la escuela, eso a ella como que le molestaba, porque de verdad nunca me hablo y yo mas educada, cuando entraba a la dirección daba las buenas tardes, pero ella era la única que no decía nada, en ocasiones cuando yo entraba, ella salia, eso se dieron cuenta los demás y decían estará loca ella, si Zhandra es pana.

Y aun que ya me jubile que a veces visito la escuela, ella sigue ahí la secretaria y es la misma actitud, que de verdad lo que me da es ganas de reír, personas adultas e inmaduras a la vez. Pero como no la debo ni la temo, allá esa persona con su amargura que yo sigo siendo feliz, es como decimos nos ganamos un enemigo gratis ja ja, a veces esas personas quizás en su vida vivieron un episodio similar y entonces la pagan con otros y yo me gane ese premio. A la única persona a quien le debo importar e interesar si encajo o no es a mi, yo se a donde pertenecer, con quien estar, no soy monedita de oro, para gustarle a todos, con tal me quiera yo es mas que suficiente, uno sabe donde encajamos y donde no, donde no, simple no estamos, es mejor con quien si.

La sociedad es así, no la vamos a cambiar a todos, simple quien no le guste la sociedad donde esta, que busque otra pero tampoco debe dañar a otros. Hay personas que como se alegran de causar baja autoestima a otras, pero conmigo no, he pasado cosas mas dificiles, como un divorcio, que mientras otras se derrumban, yo segui adelante. Aquí mismo en la plataforma siento que encajo, sino no me invitaran a ninguna dinámica, iniciativa, concurso u otro, yo quisiera invitar a muchos, pero no tengo los nombres de todos, para esta oportunidad invito a @yurilaya @purrix @nill2021 @marpa, este es el enlace de esta iniciativa https://hive.blog/hive-131951/@charjaim/aciertos-y-desaciertos-de-encajar, gracias @charjaim por la invitacion general. Las fotos de diferentes momentos alegres donde encajo je je, tomadas con varios dispositivos y celulares que ya no estan en uso, las mismas estan guardadas en archivos de mi pc HP. Portada editada en Canva. Traductor con deepL.

Greetings, friends, and some male friends, although there are more women writing here, but I know that they read us too. I received an invitation to this initiative, and after reading about its origins, I said, “Sure, I'll join.” We live in society because we have no other choice. In it, we find everything: people who like us, people who don't, people who are sincere with us, and people who say they are our friends but aren't, only because they have some interest in us.

Since childhood, we have suffered this rejection for some reason, but as far as I can remember from my childhood and adolescence, everything was fine, I fit in with everyone, maybe because I was cool, I got along with everyone, and if I ever didn't fit in, they didn't tell me, so I just got on with my life. But it seems unbelievable that sometimes these things happen to adults. It happened to me at the school where I worked until I retired. In every job, there are always these kinds of situations, differences of opinion, temporary ones, but here I noticed it and it didn't go unnoticed.

It turns out that a new secretary arrived, and with her I got lucky, because I don't know why, but I didn't fit into her circle, but that didn't bother me. I had been at the school longer and they already knew what I was like. I liked to support and collaborate with everyone at school. I excelled at organizing school activities, which seemed to bother her, because she never really spoke to me, and I was always polite. When I entered the office, I would say good afternoon, but she was the only one who didn't say anything. Sometimes when I came in, she would leave. The others noticed this and said she must be crazy, because Zhandra is a friend.

And even though I'm retired now, I still visit the school sometimes, and she's still there as the secretary with the same attitude, which really makes me want to laugh. Adults who are immature at the same time. But since I don't owe her anything and I don't fear her, let that person be with her bitterness while I continue to be happy. It's like we say, we've earned a free enemy, ha ha. Sometimes those people may have experienced a similar episode in their lives and so they take it out on others, and I've earned that prize. The only person who should care and be interested in whether I fit in or not is me. I know where I belong, who to be with. I'm not a gold coin that everyone has to like. As long as I like myself, that's more than enough. We know where we fit in and where we don't. Where we don't, we're simply not there. It's better with those who are.

That's how society is, we're not going to change everyone. If you don't like the society you're in, find another one, but don't hurt others in the process. There are people who enjoy causing others to have low self-esteem, but not me. I've been through more difficult things, like a divorce, and while others fall apart, I kept going. Right here on this platform, I feel like I fit in. Otherwise, they wouldn't invite me to any activities, initiatives, contests, or anything else. I would like to invite many people, but I don't have everyone's names. For this opportunity, I invite @yurilaya, @purrix, @nill2021, and @marpa. Here is the link for this initiative: https://hive.blog/hive-131951/@charjaim/aciertos-y-desaciertos-de-encajar. Thank you, @charjaim, for the general invitation. The photos of different happy moments where I fit in, hehe, taken with various devices and cell phones that are no longer in use, are stored in files on my HP PC. Cover edited in Canva. Translated with deepL.