[Eng-Esp]/iniciativa lo que callamos/ saber llevar lo necesario/know how to carry what is necessary

@zorili91 · 2025-04-16 14:29 · Holos&Lotus
Hola y mi saludos a todos leyendo algunos post me encuentro con la gran propuesta de nuestra querida @maylink sobre lo que callamos,un peso en el alma y cuerpo


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Me puso a pensar es cierto que es muy necesario el uso de la palabra y la comunicación a traves de ella en nuestras vidas.
Pero es cierto también que en muchas ocasiones se torna bien dificil sobre todo con los jóvenes en la actualidad,ser buen receptor hoy dia es bien difícil.

El lenguaje anda bien distorsionado ya que a mi criterio los jóvenes hoy tiene sus propios códigos que solo ellos entienden.
Soy de las que hago uso y abuso de ka palabra,me es muy dificil no expresarme ,algo que me señalan desde niña .

En muchas ocasiones he tenido serias conversaciones y me descubro en medio de la noche diciendome todo lo que me quedo por decir.

Siempre digo lo que pienso tal y como se me viene a la mente situacion que me a provocado serios problemas.

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Porque como siempre digo no todos estan aptos para escuchar la verdad tal y como es ,por tanto he tratado con el paso de los años a calmar esa voz interior,que en muchas ocasiones sale como torrente de mi boca.

Casualmente me encontré hace poco envuelta en un estres laboral donde mo podia expresarme a gusto por tanto estuve toda la noche seleccionando las frases y palabras adecuadas que no hirieran a nadie y a la vez llegara el mensaje y lo entregue por escrito.

Solo consigo de vuelta puras justificiones ante cada señalamientos, por lo que decidi expresarme desde el tono de mi voz hasta la fuerza de mis palabras seria mas efectiva para el oyente o al menos sentiria que me libraba de un gran enojo interno.

Pero me doy cuenta que estaba ooniendo tambien en mis palabras un grupo de sentimientos que rralmente no debian haber estado presente como la soberbia ,sin embargo cuando termine

Alguien me llama aparté y me dice no vale la pena que te desgastes tienes la razon pero si el receptor no tiene la capacidad de entenderte aunque se lo deletrees no la verá.

Me senti frustada pero a la vez en mi interior regreso esa paz que no me dejaba seguir adelante .

Me tildan de apasionada ,muchos de loca cuando digo mis verdades pero creo que si todos den una forma u otra lográramos expresarnos en los momentos que ocurren los echos ,existirian menos personas hipertensas, menos problemas intrafamiliares.
Acumular , frases por no herir,no reclamar por no molestar solo lleva a la desestabilización emocional

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Al menos yo lo veo asi por tanto mi politica es decirlo y si no gusto jjj como decia mi mama te aguantas, que se enferme el que lo escuche y no el que lo diga.

No ahi que tener el don de la palabra es sencillamente utilizarla y ella sola sanara tu alma y tu cuerpo te lo agradecerá.
Sigue siendo la palabra no importa la época ni los años lo mejor que tiene el ser humano.

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmYFR9vtGTLvRV9ezLPW5fAZKxgKsVoXyRZ9doEwDPn3jh/acias_por.jpg) traductor deepl imagenes de pixabay inglish >Hello and my greetings to all reading some post I came across the great proposal of our dear @maylink about what we keep silent, a weight on the soul and body ![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmcBe22vh3F5nbpTqF44LAbRkhAiQUpNMYTmA8uuVDkeJM/students_1822449_960_720.jpg)[conversar](https://https://pixabay.com/photos/students-announcement-communication-1822449/) >It made me think it is true that it is very necessary to use the word and communication through it in our lives. >But it is also true that in many occasions it is very difficult, especially with young people nowadays, to be a good receiver today is very difficult. >The language is very distorted because in my opinion young people today have their own codes that only they understand. I am one of those who use and abuse words, it is very difficult for me not to express myself, something that has been pointed out to me since I was a child. >On many occasions I have had serious conversations and I find myself in the middle of the night telling myself everything I have left to say. >I always say what I think as it comes to my mind, a situation that has caused me serious problems . ![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmP8SdFsF5k1NovQ4VLVeo92WyxiHX3Ss7phNJqg1JYsV1/child_1807515_960_720.jpg)[relacion](https://https://pixabay.com/photos/child-laptop-myanmar-asia-thailand-1807515/) >Because as I always say not everyone is able to hear the truth as it is, so I have tried over the years to calm that inner voice, which often comes out of my mouth like a torrent. >By chance I recently found myself involved in a work stress where I could not express myself at ease, so I was up all night selecting the right phrases and words that would not hurt anyone and at the same time I got the message and delivered it in writing. >I only get back pure justifications to each point, so I decided to express myself from the tone of my voice to the strength of my words would be more effective for the listener or at least I would feel that I got rid of a great inner anger. ![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmboePDCDeH4M3Tt2uZp3sx32DDgbRDwBCfogUGw7KPjCE/ai_generated_8165671_960_720.jpg)[comunicar](https://pixabay.com/illustrations/ai-generated-cellphone-addiction-8165671/) >But I realized that I was also hearing in my words a group of feelings that really should not have been present such as pride, however when I finished >someone called me aside and told me it is not worth it to wear yourself out, you are right but if the receiver does not have the ability to understand you even if you spell it out he will not see it. >I felt frustrated but at the same time inside me I felt that peace that did not let me go on. >I am branded as passionate, many denloca when I tell my truths but I think that if all denuna form or another managed to express ourselves in the moments that occur the echos, there would be fewer hypertensive people, fewer intrafamily problems. >Accumulate, phrases for not hurting, do not complain for not bothering only leads to emotional destabilization At least I see it that way so my policy is to say it and if I do not like it jjj as my mom used to say, let the one who hears it get sick and not the one who says it. >There is no need to have the gift of the word, it is simply to use it and it alone will heal your soul and your body will thank you. The word continues to be the best thing that the human being has, no matter the time or the years. ![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmYFR9vtGTLvRV9ezLPW5fAZKxgKsVoXyRZ9doEwDPn3jh/acias_por.jpg) >traductor deepl >imagenes de pixabay
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